Review of Sexing The Transman Documentary March 17, 2012

Buck Angel is a saviour to trans men everywhere.

I remember the first time I got my hands on a gay porno (it was one of those cut down softcore jobs) and the feeling of ‘Oh, there are people out there like me!’ Let’s face it, there’s never been a lack of gay porn out there.

Until Buck, there was no sexually open, masculine, vag-proud trans guys to watch. I can only imagine the release that guys must have felt when Buck hit the small screen.

In Sexing the Transman, Buck interviews a heap of trans guys and girls who have been out with trans guys (including the fabulous Margaret Cho) to discuss their experiences, their desires, their pains, their holes - pretty much everything.

The doco is very candid and very explicit (the MQFF team had to negotiate to get it through the classification board even with an unclassified rating); it is also moving, loving and very sexy.

I liked the demystifying role of the film - I certainly got a lot out of it on that level - but what I like more is that that’s not really why the film was made. This is a film by trans guys for trans guys. I am glad I got to see it (thanks MQFF for taking up that fight) but more than that, I am glad the film is out there and these guys are getting a voice.

Thanks Buck (and everyone involved).

Thank you-Cue Dot Confession

Mr. Angel,

My name is Ana, and I’m 29 years old. About six months ago, I had an “a-ha” moment when I realized that my body image issues might not simply be due to my weight, but also because no matter how in shape I get as a female, I really would prefer a masculine body. Since then, I have been doing a lot of research, talking with my various therapists (primary psycho, gender identity, nutritionist and personal trainer), talking with my family, and doing a lot of thinking. In that time, I have looked to you and your resources as a source of inspiration. With an open mind, you really embrace the idea of simply being comfortable in your own skin. This has really made a big difference in my thought process—at first, it felt like I had to automatically just presume that I needed to switch to being male. This has help me to also realize that all of what I’m feeling is solely about finally accepting my own body, not as what it is, but rather, what it could be. And, it’s not really about how I present to others or that I want to present a certain way to the public at all.

Though, at this time, I still technically identify as female, I definitely feel that I would be far more comfortable with a dominantly male body, and I’m trying to be very deliberate and slow with my process of attaining the body I really want. My first step is to do as much as I can to reach my healthiest point through nutrition and fitness. Once there, I want to live in that space for some time while assessing my comfort. If, in fact, that’s all that I needed, then I don’t need to move on. But, if I find that it’s still not feeling right, I would start to seriously consider top surgery because my breasts are really the most challenging part for me. Again, after that, live in that space and assess comfort. From there would be hormones.

That said, I’ve noticed most FtMs that I have met or read about often start testosterone first and then have top surgery. My question is does the order matter? Would doing one before the other make doing the other easier or harder? My problem is that hormones are still a little scary to me. With surgery, there’s a pretty standard outcome, whereas hormones work different and have different results for everyone. I want to be absolutely sure that it’s necessary to do before jumping into it.

I apologize for such a lengthy email, but I’m starting to recognize the need for reaching out to others, and who better than you!

I appreciate any feedback or responses you might have. Thanks for your time!

Sincerely,
Ana

Hi Ana,

Thanks for your email and trusting me to give you some good feedback.

I am happy to hear that you are becoming aware of how to be yourself no matter what anyone thinks. Good for you.

So you can surely have top surgery before taking hormones if you can find the doctor to do that. I have met some people who have done that. I think that is very smart of you to think about the testosterone. This is something that can have effects that you cannot reverse. Same for the top surgery, so think about that as well.

Just take your time and talk to people about it you will figure out what is right for you. And that is really the bottom line, make sure whatever you do is right for you. There is no right or wrong way.

Good luck my friend!

WOOF!
Buck Angel®
Pioneering Filmmaker, Speaker, and Advocate

Hi,
I hope it’s ok that I’m e-mailing you at this address, I got it from the end of your It Gets Better video you put up on youtube.
I’m e-mailing you because my boyfriend is ftm transgender, and pre everything. I worry for him so much and have no idea who to reach out to who is so knowledgeable and supportive, besides you! The reason I worry is that he is over weight, and wears these underworks chest binders that he will not leave the house without (and I understand why), but they cut into him because they are just so tight, and they make it so hard for him to breath, and he is developing back problems. He is from a small don’t ask don’t tell type community, and is terrified of going to his doctor.

Your it gets better video really spoke to me and moved me, and I wonder if you ever experienced the same thing with binders and what you did. I also wonder if there is something I could suggest to him for working out (he wants to be a gym rat so bad and idolizes you! teehee), without him being nervous about his “pre-everything” body.

I know that he needs to move himself forward, and I’m not asking for advice to convince him of anything because that is not my place on his journey of transitioning, I’m only asking if there is something I can help him with with the binder situation, I just can’t stand the thought of him permanently injuring his back, or having breathing problems for the rest of his life.

I hope this isn’t random or inappropriate to have e-mailed you.
I hope to hear back from you, and if not, that’s ok.

Hi Sue,

Thanks for the email, and yes this is a fine email to use.

Also thank you for watching my “It Gets Better Video” it means lots to me that it moved you. It was not easy to make but I have had such great feedback from it I am so happy I did it.

As for your boyfriend. I can totally relate to the undergarment thing. Before my surgery I used to wear my own contraption. They didn’t even make binders back in the day when I transitioned. What I did was buy a very small women’s sports bra and then wear a mens undershirt over that so it looked just like a undershirt under my t-shirt. My tits were strapped down so hard that at night when I took off the sport bra I had marks in my skin so deep. It was painful but I didn’t care because you could not see my tits. I am lucky that I have no  damage. I think this is a common problem with many guys. He needs to look into finding a binder that fits better.

So I think part of the issue is his weight and the fact that he wants to start getting in shape is awesome. It will help his transition lots. I suggest he starts at home, Working out with some workout DVD’s.  That’s what I did. You can get tons of great stuff now for cheap. If he starts like 15-20 minutes a day he will see results and when he starts losing weight then the binders will start to fit properly. Go to my website buckangelbodybuilding.com to see all of the workout DVDs I use and highly recommend.

I think lots of people really hate going to the gym as it is intimidating for many, That’s why working out at home is a great way to get in shape and not feel intimidated.

Let me know if this helps and thanks again for the letter and trusting me.

WOOF!!
Buck Angel®
Pioneering Filmmaker, Educator, and Advocate

Buck Angel’s Sexing The Transman-The Documentary ( Trailer #3)

ALL NEW TRAILER -JAN. 2012
This intriguing documentary explores the sexuality of transmen.The film contains intimate conversations with transmen, their partners, and the people who love them. Groundbreaking interviews about the use of testosterone and the effect it has on sexuality, revealing the most personal secrets of their sex lives.

To see more on this film please visit the website:
sexingthetransman.com

Coming to a film festival near you!

Looking to cast POC for the next SEXING THE TRANSMAN XXX-Please apply so I can show more diversity. Here is the link. I am in NYC shooting Nov. 8-13.

Apply Here

WOOF!

Buck Angel

My given name is X, but my chosen name is XX. I am an 18 year old Pre-T Pre-Op Transman. I live in Florida with my parents, my little brother, and my little sister. I am attending a local college to get a degree in hopes of having a career with the FBI.

I’ve been struggling with my gender and sexual identity since I was about 14. I’ve been thinking about possibly becoming FTM since I was 16. I’ve been straight, bi, and lesbian. I’ve settled on being pansexual because I’ve realized that someone’s gender doesn’t mean anything to me personally. I’ve been classifying as Bigender for the past few months and it’s set my mind at ease a little bit. I can go out in public (by myself or with my siblings) and pass as a guy easily. It makes me feel so good. But if someone calls me ‘sir’ when I’m out with my parents, they shoot me a scathing glare and I immediately correct the person.

So as you can probably guess, I still haven’t told my parents about my plans yet, so this is where I need your guidance.

I’ve been subtly dropping hints during the past year; I’ve been wearing more guy clothing, I’ve been binding my chest, I’ve stopped wearing make up, and I’ve stopped shaving my legs and armpits. Also, because of genetics, the women in my family tend to have lots of facial hair, so I’ve been letting it grow out as much as possible (before my mom threatens to take things from me and I have to shave). I’ve got a nice goatee if I do say so myself. :)

That aside, I’ve decided that I’ve danced around the issue enough and that as part of my New Years resolution, I’m going to sit my parents down and tell them the truth; everything from the beginning. I was wondering if you had any suggestions on what kind of wording I should use or certain phrases I should avoid. I’ve asked a few other transguys and they’ve been pretty helpful. I was just hoping maybe you had a few things you wanted to add in for me.

I’d really appreciate your help. You’ve really helped boost my confidence in many ways. You’ve made me believe that I can really do this and be okay. I’m tearing up as I write this because this decision means so much to me. It’s been the past 4 years of my life and I’m suffocating trying to hide.

Anything you can tell me will be so helpful!!

Thanks Buck!

Thank you so much for the email. Of course I totally understand what you are going through as do so many others, So your not alone!

It is great that you are coming to a decision to finally come out. You are an adult and you need to start living life for yourself and on your terms. I also understand the part of telling your parents. This is not easy and they really seem like they might not get the whole transgender thing. With that said you need to educate them. There is tons of info out there and also if you like you can show them the PSA I did with my Mom it might help just bit,because my Mom is such a “Mom” haaa
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgXJekWRxbU

The advice I would give you is just try to be strong. They might resist. My parents did in the beginning only because they did not understand. I think since you have been dressing this way and growing facial hair they might have some idea so it might not be such a shock to them.

Most important is that you understand this is all about you and not them. They might think that but you need to let them know that and also that there are many many people like yourself in the world and that it is normal to feel the way you do.

I hope this helps a bit and I am sending you a big Buck hug to give you strength!

Congratulations on your new life journey!

WOOF!!

Buck Angel®
Pioneering Filmmaker, Educator, and Advocate

When: Oct 31, 2011 
Where: Main Space
Time: Doors open at 7:00pm, film starts at 8pm
Cost: $5 - $15 sliding scale
This is an FSPC event, CSPC discounts do not apply

Buck Angel’s new film, Sexing the Transman XXX will have a special screening night at The Center and Foundation for Sex Positive Culture in Seattle on October 31, 2011 from 8-10pm. Buck’s wife, Elayne Angel, will be the host for the evening and will be available for a Q & A after the screening. Buck Angel will be in Copenhagen at the MIX LGBT festival screening a mainstream version of the same documentary.

The film, Sexing the Transman XXX, is an intimate audio-visual tour of FTM sexuality, including interviews and graphic video of a variety of transmen. It was conceived, filmed, and directed by Buck Angel, educator, advocate, and iconic figure in redefining gender, sexual fluidity, and individual expression of identity.
Buck Angel made history rising to prominence as a female-to-male transgender adult film star, and he has used his struggles and successes as a platform to help empower people of all types and encourage self-love and acceptance. This film is one way that he is educating about the unique perspectives of transmen and working toward greater understanding in the realms of gender and human sexuality.

For more information and to view a trailer of the film visit sexingthetransman.com

To learn more about Buck Angel visit buckangel.com

buckangel:

Here is the thing for you guys/girls who think that I am just casting ALL white guys. Those are the guys who applied to be in the film!!! I would love to have some color in my films but I can’t force anyone to be in a porn now can I. Jesus Christ! First you bitch at me for not having any other transmen in my films so I finally have the ability to make one because enough transmen were willing to be filmed NOW I don’t have enough COLOR??? Come on now. I can only do so much. But I guess you guys could find fault in anything I do. So be it, doesn’t stop the people who appreciate what I do.

Review done by Crevice Canyon:

I recently got to review a movie that I’ve been creaming my knickers over for a while now and guess what? IT DIDN’T DISAPPOINT.

The movie is Sexing the Transman XXX; the latest brain child of XXX performer, educator and all round awesome,…

Review of Sexing The Transman XXX from Fleshbot

Female-to-male transsexual pornstar Buck Angel has revolutionized sexual norms by building a brand around the sexiness of men with vaginas. The concept of how a FTM transsexual has sex, however, remains a challenging concept for many. In his fascinating new film, “Sexing the Transman XXX,” Buck takes a very intimate look at the sensual lives of transmen, remaining sexy, steamy, educational, and entertaining…Read More

Review done by Crevice Canyon:

I recently got to review a movie that I’ve been creaming my knickers over for a while now and guess what? IT DIDN’T DISAPPOINT.

The movie is Sexing the Transman XXX; the latest brain child of XXX performer, educator and all round awesome, buff as hell guy, Buck Angel.

Sexing the Transman XXX consists of 5 scenes, all featuring trans guys, four of which have the formula of an interview, followed by a solo masturbation scene with the last being a hardcore sex scene (featuring Uncle Buck himself).

It’s simple but genius. The menus are basic. The filming and editing is mostly one shot (all done by Buck himself). Buck interviews the performers from behind the subject but it has more of a ‘chat’ feeling, than an interview. I felt like I was listening in on awesome, personal conversations. It was very intimate.

I don’t normally do this with reviews but I’ve done a scene by scene for this film because there were a lot of things I wanted to direct quote and I also wanted to shine a light on each of the performers because they were all amazing.

So here we go…SEXING THE TRANSMAN XXX REVIEW